The Carmasutra

Let's face it, having children is certainly not the most conducive route to romance. We've got 20 sizzling sex positions just waiting for you to test drive and put some spice back into your love life. We present to you, The 'Carmasutra' ... 

**WARNING: the following slides contain sexually explicit illustrations of sex positions. Please do not allow under 16s to view them**

Lie on your back with your legs in the air while your partner parts them, kneeling opposite you. You can then control the pace of love making by holding onto his legs.

This position allows for deep pentration and eye contact for increased intimacy.

Recline that front seat fully and lie down with your man on top in a tight, hugging position.

Similar to the classic missionary position, this allows for the limited space available in the car.

Your partner lies on his back with his legs bent at the knees while you face the other way and squat with his legs supporting you and his feet on our shoulders.

One for adventurous, athletic types - this position puts you right in control of speed and penetration depth but may take a while to master. A good one to try when you have lots of energy to burn (watching dog optional!)

Get your man to lie on his back and then lie on top of him facing the other way with one leg over, which he can then hold to steady you while you also grip onto his legs.

As you're on top this position is good for clitoral stimution, although not one to try if you can't stand the sight of his feet!

Kneel facing each other in a hugging position and straddle your partner while he keeps you upright.

A nice one to try if you're in the mood for lots of kissing or a 'quickie' as it should get you going quickly.

Lie back with your leg up and bent at the knee. Your partner then needs to hold onto your bent leg, straddling you, and supporting himself by holding onto your straight leg with his other arm.

Another good one to try if you're a bit tired, plus keeping your leg up is also good for your stomach muscles, too!

A twist on the traditional 'doggy style': kneel on all fours while he also knees and penetrates you from behind holding onto your hips.

This position allows for lots of pleasure as his hands are left to roam to your clitoris and breasts as well.

Get your partner to lie on his back while you straddle him facing the other way. He can then hold onto your hips as you control the speed and depth of penetration.

Women on top positions are good for clitoral stimulation, but you may find you need to lean forward slightly to get into the right position.

Similar to doggy style, but instead of the man placing his hands on the floor, he creates a tighter embrace by holding onto your forearms while penetrating from behind.

Ideal for small cars, this position also works well for anal sex. The man can also let go leaving his hands free to caress your body.

Your man sits on the front seat while you sit on his lap facing the other way. This allows you to control most of the movement and depth of penetration.

A good one to try when he needs a rest, this also leaves his hands free to give your clitoris and nipples some attention - giving you double the pleasure!

Get him to sit on the back seat in the lotus position, then sit facing him on top with your legs wrapped around him. You can also use the back seatbelt for added stability.

One for yoga fans or those who are supple, and as you are on top. this allows you to decide on the pace of lovemaking while allowing for lots of kissing, too.

One for the exhibitionists in you (if you do fancy taking to the roof of your car)! You both need to start in a kneeling position taking one leg up resting your foot on the floor (the opposite side to each other). A bit of a balancing act you'll need to hold on tight to each other to then keep yourselves upright.

A good position for those bored of your normal routine and wanting to shake it up a bit.

He sits up straight while you sit on his lap facing him, then put your legs over his shoulders. Hold onto the headrest and get him to put his arms around your back to hold you steady. You can then control the speed of lovemaking - be careful as this position allows for very deep penetration.

A tricky one to get the hang of, this also serves as quite a good workout as you'll use lots of muscles you didn't even know you had!

Lie down on the back seat and get your partner to kneel facing you. Get him to then pull you towards him with his hands under your back, your legs either side of his body, and your hips tilting forward.

This position allows for lots of intimate eye contact and puts him in control, with his hands left free to stimulate your nipples and clitoris for added thrills.

One for all the exhibitionists out there (if you do fancy trying this on the roof of your car)! You both need to start in a kneeling position facing each other, then bring up the opposite knee and rest that foot on the floor. Hold on tight to each other so you're supported, allowing him to thrust gently into you.

This one's a bit of a balancing ac,t so one to save for when you both have a bit of energy to spare. It may take a while to get the hang of this but it'll be worth it in the end!

Another one for all the yoga lovers out there. Get your man to lie down and then sit on him facing to one side with your legs crossed in the lotus position. You're then free to control his thrusts whilst directing where he penetrates.

You'll need to be careful with your balance with this one but once you've mastered, it will become relatively easy and a good one to try if he's feeling tired.

Recline the front seat and get your man to lie back with his legs bent to the floor. Sit on his lap facing the opposite direction, with your legs bent and feet resting on the seat. He can use is arms to support your back to stop you from falling back. Your hands then are left free to stroke him ... and whatever else you fancy!

This squatting position also serves as an excellent exercise for toning your thighs.

Start in a kneeling position, then gently lie back so your back is resting on the seat. He then sits up facing you and slots himself into position between your legs, leaving him at a good angle for stimulating your nipples with his mouth.

One to try if you're flexible but be careful as it may leave painful carpet burns on your knees if you get too carried away!

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