My husband left me with a newborn
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Last post: 08/06/2022 at 2:12 pm
How could just up and leave me just give days after giving him a baby? There isn't even another woman. He just said I loved him to much
Hello Denae,
We've moved your thread to our Families and relationships board, as we think it's a more appropriate place for this topic and you’re more likely to get responses here.
Happened to me a long time ago now but our baby was planned…then he missed our old life when I fell pregnant,
long story short he moved away, made a new life and had kids with somebody else soon after.
Do you know what I did…got on with my life with my new baby girl. We have the strongest bond and I loved every second bringing her up. She’s at senior school now..money was a little tighter but I saved hard for holidays and we found local fun things to do. He never got back in touch but that’s fine…she is kind and loving and funny and so smart!
maybe he’s had a nervous breakdown or maybe he’s just not a nice person. Please don’t let this ruin such a magical time with your new baby.
Either way it will work itself out and you concentrate on you and the baby. His loss if he doesn’t come home xx
I'm so sorry that you are going through this especially at a time which should be filled with happiness.
It sounds to me like he's not telling you the truth xx
Why would you break up with someone for loving them too much?? I just don't get it! There has to be something else going on, he must have genuine reasons... Even if its just that he's having a huge wobble now baby has arrived about being a dad! Maybe there isn't currently a woman but his head has been turned?? Or maybe it's simply that he's fallen out of love with you and doesn't know how to say it.
If he's left its his loss x and has hard as it is you must now turn focus to your life with your new baby xx get yourself out to meet other mums, catch up with friends or reach out to old ones and build a new life for yourself xx
It may not feel like it now but you will get through this x