Confused!
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Last post: 04/06/2022 at 7:31 am
So I’ve FINALLY got my operation date to be sterlised, have an ablation and to burn off more of my endometriosis I’ve been waiting a long time… had my date 8th august, had my pre op… found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant…. I already have a 2.5 year old and a 1 year old, I’ve had multiple miscarriages in the past and I am so so torn between having a termination ( I’ve always said I’d never) and having my operation being happy with 2 or just postponing my op and having the last baby… HELP
Oh Molly I really feel your pain. I found out I was pregnant while on the waiting list to be sterilised. I'm going to be honest, I was terminating that pregnancy as soon as I found out. I was beyond devastated as we had absolutely no intention of having any more children. After a lot of tears and deliberations we decided to proceed with the pregnancy. I'm now over 6 months and although I'm still not 100% happy I feel it was the right decision as I don't think I could have lived with myself had I terminated it.
Oh Molly I really feel your pain. I found out I was pregnant while on the waiting list to be sterilised. I'm going to be honest, I was terminating that pregnancy as soon as I found out. I was beyond devastated as we had absolutely no intention of having any more children. After a lot of tears and deliberations we decided to proceed with the pregnancy. I'm now over 6 months and although I'm still not 100% happy I feel it was the right decision as I don't think I could have lived with myself had I terminated it.
Thank you for that! I hope you’re okay it’s such a hard decision to make! We’ve decided to carry on with the pregnancy too, I suffer from reoccurring miscarriages so it’s a waiting game now until the first scan to see if everything’s okay, and then can get excited if it’s okay if not I can proceed with the operation! X
I’m all for free speech and open opinions but don’t start preaching about god to me because if he was real the bad stuff that’s happened in my life wouldn’t of or he’d of guided me more so thanks but no thanks, if you’d read the comment before it would clearly say that I’ve decided against the termination and putting my own health and life at risk to do so
Again stop with the god ***** cause sexual abuse isn’t a choice as a child is it so if he is real why did that happen? Please stop with the god ***** cause HE in my view isn’t real and is a sack of *****! And if you chose to have an abortion then that’s on you and what was going on in your life at the time, like you said you’ve already had a loss so stop pushing your views onto other people everyone’s experiences are different
Again stop with the god ***** cause sexual abuse isn’t a choice as a child is it so if he is real why did that happen? Please stop with the god ***** cause HE in my view isn’t real and is a sack of *****! And if you chose to have an abortion then that’s on you and what was going on in your life at the time, like you said you’ve already had a loss so stop pushing your views onto other people everyone’s experiences are different
At least you got you heading right, you are definitely confused. I'm not sure why you want to blame GOD for all your crappy ordeals through life, sometimes crap happens, I was Raped as a child and I don't blame GOD, HE wasn't there, I didn't know HE existed when I was a kid. It's not HIS fault. I'm sorry you were raped, but that doesn't mean you have the right to blame GOD for every crappy thing that has ever happened to you. Your life would be so much easier with HIM in it. But, how could HE be. You won't give him a chance because you have 'Woe is me' syndrome and blame HIM for your choices and your unfortunate circumstances. I will pray for you Molly, someone needs to! I'm am so sorry you want to but heads with me, I'm just a humble Priest whom was merely trying to help. You can open your eyes and see the bigger picture, or you can keep them shut and continue to hate the world and GOD. Good luck in your life! GOD bless you and I pray HE softens your heart so you see the bigger picture...
At least you got you heading right, you are definitely confused. I'm not sure why you want to blame GOD for all your crappy ordeals through life, sometimes crap happens, I was Raped as a child and I don't blame GOD, HE wasn't there, I didn't know HE existed when I was a kid. It's not HIS fault. I'm sorry you were raped, but that doesn't mean you have the right to blame GOD for every crappy thing that has ever happened to you. Your life would be so much easier with HIM in it. But, how could HE be. You won't give him a chance because you have 'Woe is me' syndrome and blame HIM for your choices and your unfortunate circumstances. I will pray for you Molly, someone needs to! I'm am so sorry you want to but heads with me, I'm just a humble Priest whom was merely trying to help. You can open your eyes and see the bigger picture, or you can keep them shut and continue to hate the world and GOD. Good luck in your life! GOD bless you and I pray HE softens your heart so you see the bigger picture...
You’re the worst type 😂 absolute shambles! Get off my post
At least you got you heading right, you are definitely confused. I'm not sure why you want to blame GOD for all your crappy ordeals through life, sometimes crap happens, I was Raped as a child and I don't blame GOD, HE wasn't there, I didn't know HE existed when I was a kid. It's not HIS fault. I'm sorry you were raped, but that doesn't mean you have the right to blame GOD for every crappy thing that has ever happened to you. Your life would be so much easier with HIM in it. But, how could HE be. You won't give him a chance because you have 'Woe is me' syndrome and blame HIM for your choices and your unfortunate circumstances. I will pray for you Molly, someone needs to! I'm am so sorry you want to but heads with me, I'm just a humble Priest whom was merely trying to help. You can open your eyes and see the bigger picture, or you can keep them shut and continue to hate the world and GOD. Good luck in your life! GOD bless you and I pray HE softens your heart so you see the bigger picture...
You don’t have a say anyway we’re women you’re a man, you don’t have a say what we do with our bodies!